Couple's anger at five month wait for headstone for dad's grave

Couple's anger at five month wait for headstone for dad's grave Couple's anger at five month wait for headstone for dad's grave

IT is a disgusting way to treat bereaved families.

These are the words of a Southampton couple who paid out more than £600 of their savings to buy a headstone in July, and still have not received it five months later.

Roger Bennett and his wife Hayley, both 27, from Northolt Gardens in Lordshill, bought a headstone from Skegness-based Simplymemorials to remember Roger’s dad, also called Roger Bennett, who died of lung cancer in 2010.

The couple bought the £635 headstone online from the Simplymemorials website and expected the headstone to arrive within three months.

But instead they say they were given broken promises about when it would arrive.

It has been two weeks since the family have been able to contact the company.

Theye say they are now greeted by an answerphone message saying the office is closed due to bad weather.

Mr Bennett said: “I feel like we have been ripped off, it is a disgusting way of treating bereaved families. I don’t want the headstone now, I just want our hard-earned money back.”

“I feel like it is robbing from the dead.

It is going to take us a year and a half to save for another headstone.”

Another Southampton man also brought a headstone from Simplymemorials. David Hendy, 48, from Freemantle, paid £675 for a headstone to help remember his father, Ronald Hendy who passed away in March, aged 86.

After contacting Simplymemorials in June he claims he was also fobbed off with broken promises and excuses. He says he has not heard from the firm since November.

The Daily Echo tried to contact Simplymemorials but the company did not answer phone calls or emails.

The company is currently in talks with Trading Standards officers, who are aware of a growing number of complaints about Simplymemorials.

A spokesman for Trading Standards said: “If anyone has problems with this company they should go to their local Trading Standards, or Citizens Advice Bureau.

“If a company does not come up with the goods they are paid for then it is down to the consumer to sue the company for damages and compensation through a small claims court.”

Comments(4)

freemantlegirl2 says...
8:16pm Tue 1 Jan 13

Disgusting if this firm have ripped them off but particuarly surprised with the guy in Freemantle, there's a stonemason's in Foundry Lane. Who would they get to fit these headstones when they arrived? is it really a 'saving'? These stonemasons know the local cemetary's/graveyard
s etc and where possible it's good to re-invest into the local community...

I hope they get their money back but lesson learned, there's no such thing as a free lunch...

IronLady2010 says...
8:19pm Tue 1 Jan 13

Assuming they made the purchase online, cancel the transaction with the Bank.

Not that the above helps them deal with such a loss of a family member and then to be ripped off.

Good luck.

waterside3 says...
11:10pm Tue 1 Jan 13

I lost a loved one last year and have lived in Southampton all my life. I was fully aware of the stone masons in and around Southampton and did make enquires when looking to by a memorial stone.
I am a big believer in putting money back into the local community and helping local business.
But the price i was quoted was so much higher.

I was able to by the same product online and save myself £250. Now who in there right mind would throw that money away, if they didnt have to.
The company i used were from luton. And i did not have a problem.

I think its wrong that anyone should be ripped off full stop.
But i find it even worse on a subject like this where people are trying to buy such a personal item to remeber a loved one.

I hope all involved are able to some how reclaim there money

huckit P says...
8:52am Wed 2 Jan 13

When local prices far exceed online prices you must ask yourselves why. It might simply be the lower overheads but often it comes down to lack of personal service and a lower standard. Get an online price and then discuss it with the local business. It can lead to a reduction in their price, but the worst they can say is no. At least then you have tried.
And as was mentioned in another post - use a credit card for purchases over £100. That way there is a procedure for getting your money back if the deal goes wrong.

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