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Real life role model for city (From Daily Echo)
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Southampton grandmother up for inspirational award after setting up children's lunch club
9:03am Friday 4th January 2013 in News
By Tara Russell, Feature Writer
Trixie Neilson with youngsters from the children's club
SHE IS a down-to-earth grandmother of five who has fought tirelessly to improve the lives of people on her Southampton estate for more than 20 years.
Now Trixie Neilson from Thornhill is celebrating after reaching the final six of a national campaign to find Britain’s Top Real Role Model 2012.
And the 67-year-old unsung hero has been praised by leading female entrepreneurs including Jo Fairley, the founder of Green & Black’s chocolate.
She now has the chance of winning £10,000 to start up her own social enterprise along with a chance to be mentored by the chocolate guru.
Trixie told the Daily Echo: “It is such an honour to have been considered and I am overwhelmed.
“You don’t think anything like this happens to ordinary people like me.”
The mum-of-four, who lives in Hinkler Road, made the shortlist after launching a lunch club in Thornhill during the school holidays to ensure children are fed.
Many children get free school meals during term time, but their families find themselves struggling during the holidays.
The sessions, which were launched 18 months ago and now feed more than 40 children, are run from St Christopher’s Church every Monday during the holidays between 12pm and 2pm.
The children, aged from toddlers to 15-year-olds, go to the sessions with their parents and are offered sandwiches, cakes, fruit and a drink.
They also get the chance to take part in a variety of activities, from cake decorating to discos.
Trixie, who is on the board of directors for Plus You Ltd, was the former chairman of the Thornhill Community Association and is involved in Thornhill
Community Voices, said: “I am passionate about helping my local community and supporting children and their families in any way I can.
“The cost of living has gone up and we want kids to eat and enjoy themselves because so many people are struggling.
“My dream is for it to get bigger and for it to be rolled out across the city in each housing estate.”
She added: “I’m just pleased to see kids getting something to eat and that they are happy and playing and their parents are happy.”
Sheryl Franklin-Worth, corporate affairs manager at Amway UK, the global direct selling company which launched the campaign, said: “I have been overwhelmed by some of the inspirational initiatives that have been put forward for this campaign.”
The winner of Amway’s Top Real Role Model 2012 will be announced on February 11.
Comments(19)
sotonboy84
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11:13am Fri 4 Jan 13
If you can't afford to have children, then don't have them.
Just A Voice
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11:17am Fri 4 Jan 13
sotonboy84 wrote:In the current climate of people being made redundant left right & centre some people who when they had children were working and could afford to have children are not working now therefore on benefit which means they struggle, maybe you should consider those people before making stupid comments
Families find themselves struggling?!
If you can't afford to have children, then don't have them.
sotonboy84
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11:40am Fri 4 Jan 13
Just A Voice wrote:I don't consider my comment a stupid comment.
sotonboy84 wrote: Families find themselves struggling?! If you can't afford to have children, then don't have them.In the current climate of people being made redundant left right & centre some people who when they had children were working and could afford to have children are not working now therefore on benefit which means they struggle, maybe you should consider those people before making stupid comments
Week in week out there's stories in the news about underprivileged children and struggling parents who are all described as 'unemployed' or 'housewife's' and live on council estates.
These people have not been made redundant and suddenly find themselves in difficult circumstances as they've never had a job to lose! Just sponged off the state all their lives and find it unfair that they might have to cut back on their cigarettes and latest smart phones during the school holidays to feed their children instead.
That's my view and I'm sticking to it.
Subject48
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12:07pm Fri 4 Jan 13
For the time being, seeing as the kids themselves are innocent (they do not have a choice where they are born)
Well done to this lady for trying to make a difference to the kids who have more often than not, been cursed with poor excuse for parents.
Just A Voice
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12:10pm Fri 4 Jan 13
sotonboy84 wrote:I suppose ignorance is bliss, for your information, 53% of children defined by Government as living in poverty actually have both parents working (Joseph Rowntree Foundation) in low income jobs, many people living in poverty do not live on council estates, poverty doesn't discriminate just because of where you live, another fact for you, people who are working and living in private rented accommodation are more likely to be living in poverty than council tenants, that of course includes fuel poverty.
Just A Voice wrote:I don't consider my comment a stupid comment.
sotonboy84 wrote: Families find themselves struggling?! If you can't afford to have children, then don't have them.In the current climate of people being made redundant left right & centre some people who when they had children were working and could afford to have children are not working now therefore on benefit which means they struggle, maybe you should consider those people before making stupid comments
Week in week out there's stories in the news about underprivileged children and struggling parents who are all described as 'unemployed' or 'housewife's' and live on council estates.
These people have not been made redundant and suddenly find themselves in difficult circumstances as they've never had a job to lose! Just sponged off the state all their lives and find it unfair that they might have to cut back on their cigarettes and latest smart phones during the school holidays to feed their children instead.
That's my view and I'm sticking to it.
I know people who have accessed this project that have been made redundant (without payment), children who's parent work but on low income do not qualify for free schools meal and therefore more likely to struggle.
The report is about a lady who has identified a need and instead of sitting backside doing nothing she is helping other less fortunate, its not about people employed or unemployed, she should commended for what she's doing.
Just A Voice
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12:13pm Fri 4 Jan 13
Subject48 wrote:Hear Hear Subject48, she is doing a great job as are the other volunteers who help her
Hear hear sotonboy84. Short of genocide, the solution to the problem would be long term.
For the time being, seeing as the kids themselves are innocent (they do not have a choice where they are born)
Well done to this lady for trying to make a difference to the kids who have more often than not, been cursed with poor excuse for parents.
sotonboy84
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12:28pm Fri 4 Jan 13
Subject48 wrote:Completely agree.
Hear hear sotonboy84. Short of genocide, the solution to the problem would be long term. For the time being, seeing as the kids themselves are innocent (they do not have a choice where they are born) Well done to this lady for trying to make a difference to the kids who have more often than not, been cursed with poor excuse for parents.
It's not the children's fault at all, because as you say, they do not have a choice where they are born.
But, the parents have a choice whether to have children or not. And of course there are many people that are unfortunate and lose their jobs and find themselves in difficult circumstances for which I have sympathy for but it is a well-known fact that it is far too easy in the UK to live a comfortable life without ever having done a day's work. These same people then go on to have children as they know they'll be entitled to even more benefits and will also push them to the top of the waiting list for a property.
And as these people are only used to taking from society and never giving, they turn themselves into complete victims and start complaining at the idea of benefit reforms or such like or in this case, being a parent and feeding their children a lunch each day they're not at school receiving their free lunch. I suppose I could start some sort of charity to raise money to cover the extra electricity and gas that these children will also require during the school holidays...
And for anybody that fits the above description, before you get too excited, I'm being facetious.
kingnotail
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12:30pm Fri 4 Jan 13
sotonboy84 wrote:How do you know the situation of every single person on the estate? Put down your copy of the Daily Mail for 5 minutes.
Just A Voice wrote:I don't consider my comment a stupid comment.
sotonboy84 wrote: Families find themselves struggling?! If you can't afford to have children, then don't have them.In the current climate of people being made redundant left right & centre some people who when they had children were working and could afford to have children are not working now therefore on benefit which means they struggle, maybe you should consider those people before making stupid comments
Week in week out there's stories in the news about underprivileged children and struggling parents who are all described as 'unemployed' or 'housewife's' and live on council estates.
These people have not been made redundant and suddenly find themselves in difficult circumstances as they've never had a job to lose! Just sponged off the state all their lives and find it unfair that they might have to cut back on their cigarettes and latest smart phones during the school holidays to feed their children instead.
That's my view and I'm sticking to it.
Yorkyboy22
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12:32pm Fri 4 Jan 13
Just A Voice wrote:Well said 'Just A Voice'.
sotonboy84 wrote:I suppose ignorance is bliss, for your information, 53% of children defined by Government as living in poverty actually have both parents working (Joseph Rowntree Foundation) in low income jobs, many people living in poverty do not live on council estates, poverty doesn't discriminate just because of where you live, another fact for you, people who are working and living in private rented accommodation are more likely to be living in poverty than council tenants, that of course includes fuel poverty. I know people who have accessed this project that have been made redundant (without payment), children who's parent work but on low income do not qualify for free schools meal and therefore more likely to struggle. The report is about a lady who has identified a need and instead of sitting backside doing nothing she is helping other less fortunate, its not about people employed or unemployed, she should commended for what she's doing.Just A Voice wrote:I don't consider my comment a stupid comment. Week in week out there's stories in the news about underprivileged children and struggling parents who are all described as 'unemployed' or 'housewife's' and live on council estates. These people have not been made redundant and suddenly find themselves in difficult circumstances as they've never had a job to lose! Just sponged off the state all their lives and find it unfair that they might have to cut back on their cigarettes and latest smart phones during the school holidays to feed their children instead. That's my view and I'm sticking to it.sotonboy84 wrote: Families find themselves struggling?! If you can't afford to have children, then don't have them.In the current climate of people being made redundant left right & centre some people who when they had children were working and could afford to have children are not working now therefore on benefit which means they struggle, maybe you should consider those people before making stupid comments
I thought the Daily Mail online site must have crashed for a minute and they were migrating to The Echo!
Just A Voice
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12:44pm Fri 4 Jan 13
Yorkyboy22 wrote:Just giving the facts to a disgruntled Daily Fail reader.
Just A Voice wrote:Well said 'Just A Voice'.
sotonboy84 wrote:I suppose ignorance is bliss, for your information, 53% of children defined by Government as living in poverty actually have both parents working (Joseph Rowntree Foundation) in low income jobs, many people living in poverty do not live on council estates, poverty doesn't discriminate just because of where you live, another fact for you, people who are working and living in private rented accommodation are more likely to be living in poverty than council tenants, that of course includes fuel poverty. I know people who have accessed this project that have been made redundant (without payment), children who's parent work but on low income do not qualify for free schools meal and therefore more likely to struggle. The report is about a lady who has identified a need and instead of sitting backside doing nothing she is helping other less fortunate, its not about people employed or unemployed, she should commended for what she's doing.Just A Voice wrote:I don't consider my comment a stupid comment. Week in week out there's stories in the news about underprivileged children and struggling parents who are all described as 'unemployed' or 'housewife's' and live on council estates. These people have not been made redundant and suddenly find themselves in difficult circumstances as they've never had a job to lose! Just sponged off the state all their lives and find it unfair that they might have to cut back on their cigarettes and latest smart phones during the school holidays to feed their children instead. That's my view and I'm sticking to it.sotonboy84 wrote: Families find themselves struggling?! If you can't afford to have children, then don't have them.In the current climate of people being made redundant left right & centre some people who when they had children were working and could afford to have children are not working now therefore on benefit which means they struggle, maybe you should consider those people before making stupid comments
I thought the Daily Mail online site must have crashed for a minute and they were migrating to The Echo!
southy
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1:05pm Fri 4 Jan 13
Lockssmart
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1:52pm Fri 4 Jan 13
Subject48
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2:13pm Fri 4 Jan 13
I don’t want my children to live in obscurity or mediocrity and have to deal with same problems I do.
I can’t understand who in their right mind would.
Won’t have children until such time as when I can ensure my child will have an amazing future.
Lone Ranger.
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3:07pm Fri 4 Jan 13
Subject48 wrote:You obviously wont be having children then.
Let’s put it this way.
I don’t want my children to live in obscurity or mediocrity and have to deal with same problems I do.
I can’t understand who in their right mind would.
Won’t have children until such time as when I can ensure my child will have an amazing future.
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I cant see how you or anyone can "guarantee" an "amazing future".
elvisimo
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3:23pm Fri 4 Jan 13
Ignore the narrow minded and ill informed and. Keep doing what you are doing
sarfhamton
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3:34pm Fri 4 Jan 13
Easy to come on here and be negative.
chflad
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7:46pm Fri 4 Jan 13
RealTalkSouthampton
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11:06pm Fri 4 Jan 13
Just A Voice says...
10:58am Fri 4 Jan 13