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New Forest community campaigner died in bizarre sex act

9:02am Monday 1st December 2008

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A HIGHLY respected community campaigner died after accidentally choking to death during a bizarre sex act, an inquest has heard.

Thomas Craddock, pictured, was found at his New Forest home wearing women’s underwear and a white corset with his hands and ankles bound together with stockings.

The 61-year-old, who was well known throughout the community for his campaigning to preserve the character of the village, was discovered two days after he had died.

Southampton Coroner’s Court heard how from the position of his body and the way the stockings had been looped around his wrists and ankles, it was clear he had been taking part in a sex act by himself.

Home Office pathologist Hugh White told the court that his death was common with other cases of asphyxia where people had died after conducting similar practices for sexual arousal.

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He said there was no ligature around the neck and that Mr Craddock, of Sea Road, New Milton, died after his nose and mouth were blocked and he was unable to breathe.

“He may have panicked when he found himself unable to breathe,” he said.

Dr White said there were no signs of injury to Mr Craddock and that he could not rule out the possibility of a heart attack. Det Sgt Andy Lupton told the court that there was no evidence to suggest anyone else was involved in his death and that people in the community described him as a “close and well thought of friend”.

Coroner Keith Wiseman said the situation was not unheard of in the inquest court but from Dr White’s findings it was clear that Mr Craddock did not intend to take his own life.

Recording a verdict of accidental death, he said: “This was a tragic accident which took place in the context that Dr White talked about.

“But it would be wrong if I did not refer to the inquiries made which were very positive from friends and family. He seems on the face of it to be a well respected member of the community.”

Local councillors paid tribute to Mr Craddock’s efforts to fight developers who wanted to bulldoze houses and replace them with blocks of flats.

New Milton Town Council planning committee chairman John Mason said: “Mr Craddock used to do a lot of work gathering information for objections to planning applications. His arguments were very erudite and factual.”

John Trott, chairman of the New Milton, Barton and District Residents’ Association, said: “He was regarded for the soundness of his approach.”

New Milton councillor Steve Davies added: “He was an excellent chap who was extremely highly regarded.”

One of the battles fought by Mr Craddock involved an application by Churchill Retirement to demolish four family homes at Barton and replace them with a block of 28 flats. He represented 150 objectors at a planning inquiry.


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Number6, Southampton says...
11:05am Mon 1 Dec 08

"Campaigned to preserve the character of the village"
Was he working tirelessly doing the above as he met his demise!

Mavis Jones, says...
11:47am Mon 1 Dec 08

oh blimey. how unfortunate!! i do sympathise - i had a close call in rather compromising circumstances once...

hey but, UTS. don't be so insensitive! what he was doing might not be to everyone's taste, but it was in the privacy of his own home and he wasn't hurting anybody else. don't be so self-righteous and judgemental. how ridiculous to call him perverted and imply it's a good thing that he's dead. remember this is a person who had friends and a family - and he wasn't breaking the law or forcing his ways on other people. open your eyes and stop being so horrible!

Bigrich1980, ERIMI says...
12:01pm Mon 1 Dec 08

Mavis Jones are you saying you into the kinky stuff too - What do you do in the privacy of your own home then lol

Condor Man, Southampton says...
12:05pm Mon 1 Dec 08

no relation to Fanny was he?

bitternedave, Bitterne says...
12:43pm Mon 1 Dec 08

"Stephen Milligan was Lib Dem."
Definitely a Tory. The Lib Dems won the By-election with David Chidgey

Miles Sway, Scotland says...
1:07pm Mon 1 Dec 08

On the one hand, whilst most of us get a laugh from this sort of story (and wonder if out friends are at it too?) at the same time I do wonder at the necessity of reporting this poor man's very private demise in such graphic detail.
We should remember he's done nothing wrong or illegal and died during a very private and personal activity in his own home (no matter how bizarre it may appear to us)
On the basis of this sensationist reporting shouldn't we also hear about everyone who has a heart attack "on the job" or dies taking a dump etc.
Surely in death he still ought to be allowed his privacy; a little respect and preservation of his dignity would be in order, if only for the sake of friends and family.

Old Jester, Butts Ash says...
1:37pm Mon 1 Dec 08

Well said Miles.

Georgem, Southampton says...
1:39pm Mon 1 Dec 08

How did he bind his own hands together?

Finlay, Des Moines Iowa says...
1:45pm Mon 1 Dec 08

We should remember he's done nothing wrong or illegal and died during a very private and personal activity in his own home (no matter how bizarre it may appear to us)

Its whacked though

It is a cheap shot to sensationalise a story - It could have read "...Mr Wierdo was found dead in unusual circumstances although not suspicious " that would have been enough.

I enjoy reading these tales when that person and I have crossed swords in the past - I dont know this guy

Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY says...
1:48pm Mon 1 Dec 08

Georgem wrote:
How did he bind his own hands together?
Dunno, I expect Denzil or Southy could tell you though, sounds like their kind of thing.

Sly Stallone, New York says...
1:56pm Mon 1 Dec 08

You have to make a couple of loops around your wrists and ankles and be quite flexible with your shoulders but if practised many times becomes quite easy.

southy, redbridge says...
2:01pm Mon 1 Dec 08

Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY apt name for you.
the knot to use is a shackle knot,it pulls tight on its self.( its like a clove hitch but you pull the inner bright across the outter bright,and pull on the dog ends)ask any boy scout Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY

obelisker, Southampton says...
3:42pm Mon 1 Dec 08

All very sad really, for all the good work this bloke did in his life he will now only be remembered as the guy who died chasing the ultimate 'O'. A very undignified end whatever way you look at it.

Rudd Gillett, Saffhampton says...
4:33pm Mon 1 Dec 08

very sad but surely there must be an easier way to achieve the ultimate "O". Where do men of his age buy white corsets from? RIP.

Andy Locks Heath, says...
4:44pm Mon 1 Dec 08

Oops apologies, I must have a short memory - I thought Milligan was a sandal wearer. Turns out they were mules :-)

Georgem, Southampton says...
5:06pm Mon 1 Dec 08

Rudd Gillett wrote:
very sad but surely there must be an easier way to achieve the ultimate "O". Where do men of his age buy white corsets from? RIP.
Age? What does age have to do with it??

Rudd Gillett, Saffhampton says...
6:35pm Mon 1 Dec 08

Georgem wrote:
Rudd Gillett wrote: very sad but surely there must be an easier way to achieve the ultimate "O". Where do men of his age buy white corsets from? RIP.
Age? What does age have to do with it??
True, where do men then buy corsets from?

Georgem, Southampton says...
7:21pm Mon 1 Dec 08

Rudd Gillett wrote:
Georgem wrote:
Rudd Gillett wrote: very sad but surely there must be an easier way to achieve the ultimate "O". Where do men of his age buy white corsets from? RIP.
Age? What does age have to do with it??
True, where do men then buy corsets from?
A corsetmaker, perhaps? Most decent corsets are made-to-fit. There are a fair amount of transvestite/drag act supply shops around, too. Erm, apparently. Or maybe he just squeezed into his wifes? We've all done it. Um

Tragic story, really, and like others I don't see what's served by plastering the details all over the news.

Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY says...
7:42pm Mon 1 Dec 08

southy wrote:
Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY apt name for you. the knot to use is a shackle knot,it pulls tight on its self.( its like a clove hitch but you pull the inner bright across the outter bright,and pull on the dog ends)ask any boy scout Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY
Don't know any boy scouts, not surprised you do though Southy.
security word much-knee, maybe they've got your profile

southy, redbridge says...
8:21pm Mon 1 Dec 08

Shagga, the genuine lard @rse wrote:
southy wrote:
Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY apt name for you. the knot to use is a shackle knot,it pulls tight on its self.( its like a clove hitch but you pull the inner bright across the outter bright,and pull on the dog ends)ask any boy scout Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY
Don't know any boy scouts, not surprised you do though Southy.
security word much-knee, maybe they've got your profile
knots is part of my trade Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY
umm your security word,its sounds very much like you

Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY says...
9:07pm Mon 1 Dec 08

southy wrote:
Shagga, the genuine lard @rse wrote:
southy wrote: Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY apt name for you. the knot to use is a shackle knot,it pulls tight on its self.( its like a clove hitch but you pull the inner bright across the outter bright,and pull on the dog ends)ask any boy scout Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY
Don't know any boy scouts, not surprised you do though Southy. security word much-knee, maybe they've got your profile
knots is part of my trade Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY umm your security word,its sounds very much like you
Your trade?
I thought your trade was talking b0llocks and quoting made up statistics.
I bet you talk through your nose, you know that whining sounding voice.
So what is your trade, a gay bondage matrix?

Condor Man, Southampton says...
11:06pm Mon 1 Dec 08

I can think of safer ways of self-gratification with the only risk of going blind.

southy, redbridge says...
11:22pm Mon 1 Dec 08

Shagga, the genuine lard @rse wrote:
southy wrote:
Shagga, the genuine lard @rse wrote:
southy wrote: Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY apt name for you. the knot to use is a shackle knot,it pulls tight on its self.( its like a clove hitch but you pull the inner bright across the outter bright,and pull on the dog ends)ask any boy scout Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY
Don't know any boy scouts, not surprised you do though Southy. security word much-knee, maybe they've got your profile
knots is part of my trade Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY umm your security word,its sounds very much like you
Your trade?
I thought your trade was talking b0llocks and quoting made up statistics.
I bet you talk through your nose, you know that whining sounding voice.
So what is your trade, a gay bondage matrix?
no Shagga, the genuine lard @rse, POMPEY thats your job go's with your name

Georgem, Southampton says...
10:42am Tue 2 Dec 08

Southy, Southy, Southy! What has happened to you, me old china? You never used to indulge in this sort of name-calling! I was always quite impressed with the way you brushed off abuse directed at you, where's this come from? Seems the strain of always trying to be right is getting to you, chill out a bit

southy, redbridge says...
1:19pm Tue 2 Dec 08

just a bit bored Georgem, was very quite yesurday.the clam before the storm all ways like this at this time of year then theres a mad rush christmas week where places want to shut down over christmas holidays.

sausage monkey, says...
3:15pm Tue 2 Dec 08

Condor Man wrote:
I can think of safer ways of self-gratification with the only risk of going blind.
Wots that then mate :p

LL, Southampton says...
11:41am Wed 3 Dec 08

Did this mans sex life really need to be blazoned across the papers. What goes on in the privacy in his own home should surely have been nobodys business but his. What a shame the papers constantly feel the need to sensationalise what is otherwise a sad story for all concerned. His poor family will now have that memory of this man instead of the memories of all the good he may have done during his life.

ohdearhowsadyouallare, Southampton says...
11:17pm Sat 6 Dec 08

southy wrote:
just a bit bored Georgem, was very quite yesurday.the clam before the storm all ways like this at this time of year then theres a mad rush christmas week where places want to shut down over christmas holidays.
You need to get a life! What is a clam before a storm - some sort of shellfish I presume?!! May be you need more mussels?!

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