Dad had threatened to commit suicide before

Dave Cass Dave Cass

THE SOUTHAMPTON dad who murdered his two children before hanging himself had previously threatened to commit suicide, it has been revealed.

Dave Cass had told his partner Kerry Hughes that he was going to take his own life, according to her best friend.

Student Emma Timberlake said Kerry, 20, was a good mother to Ellie, three, and 12-month-old Isobel.

Miss Timberlake, 20, added: ''Ellie's laugh made everyone smile, you would start laughing because it was so cute.

''I was on the phone to Kerry on Friday and I could hear Izzy and Ellie laughing and having a play fight.

''And then Ellie started tickling her mother and I was on the phone thinking how cute that was.

''Ellie was a gorgeous little girl and Kerry used to call her the ginger ninja.

''Izzy was so beautiful when she was born and she had just started to become the gorgeous little girl that Ellie was.

''I cannot believe that anybody could have done this, but I know that there have been problems with Kerry and Dave throughout all their relationship.''

Miss Timberlake said she had introduced Mr Cass to Miss Hughes and that she had once been Mr Cass's girlfriend.

She said he was ''mentally unstable'' and had lied to her and Miss Hughes about having large sums of money in the bank and owning houses, when in fact he was living in a caravan.

''I spoke to Kerry on Friday and she told me that Dave had said he was going to kill himself. But he didn't say anything about harming the children.

''But when we were together and we broke up he has said the same thing to me, so I said to her 'Don't listen to him, darling', but then this happened.''

''She still loved him and she wanted to make a go of it for the sake of the children, but there had always been problems.''

Miss Timberlake said she had warned Miss Hughes that Mr Cass would be trouble for her and that they had been evicted from their rented accommodation in Hiltingbury, a few months ago, because they could not afford the rent.

Miss Timberlake claimed that Mr Cass had taken all the furniture when the couple had split up, forcing Miss Hughes to borrow a mattress to sleep on from a neighbour.

She said she had been friends with Miss Hughes since they both attended the same classes at St Anne's Convent School for Girls in Southampton and that after school they had lived together.

''Kerry was just an absolutely brilliant mother who really loved her children. She was shaky at first about being a mum and she used to ring me up and talk about it, but she was an absolutely brilliant mother.''

Comments(8)

Bright Spark says...
3:19pm Mon 22 Sep 08

There is no excuse for taking the lives of the little ones (other than the fact that he must have completely taken leave of his senses, but still no excuse). But having completely lost all hope and probably thinking that there was no future, I bet that this guy got no help from anyone, apart from a pile of no good pills and leaflets from the doc, and then shown the way out of the surgery.

Sheitma Pance says...
5:53pm Mon 22 Sep 08

So suicide had been threatened before and yet those around him had laughed it off?

When will society learn that father's need as much emotional support as mothers?

Dusty says...
8:28pm Mon 22 Sep 08

I can never understand what drives a man to kill, let alone his very own flesh and blood. Could it be that women when breaking up with the man, use the child as weapons. If they are upset about something they use the children as pawns in their game.

I have seen this time and time again, us men use our fists to hurt, women use emotional blackmail and the children are who they use in their game. By trying to stop visiting rights and making things as obstructive as possible, knowing that the farther not being able to see his children will kill him emotionally.

Dusty says...
8:30pm Mon 22 Sep 08

When i say fists, i dont mean against the wife ;o)


dean roles says...
9:13pm Mon 22 Sep 08

i wudent mind if it was just him that killed him self but not those to beautiful girls i would of givin him the rope!

lily1964 says...
10:26pm Mon 22 Sep 08

suicide.. nobody will ever know why, to kill first.. well we can all assume it was because he could not stand being apart from his girls, but we will never know.

Sheitma Pance says...
10:23pm Tue 23 Sep 08

Sadly, it is oh to common. take, for example the guy that jumped from the Hotel balcony in Greece, with his two kids.

It's not an uncommon ocurrence. There must be a connecting factor.

Norahbatty says...
8:18am Fri 10 Oct 08

''I spoke to Kerry on Friday and she told me that Dave had said he was going to kill himself. But he didn't say anything about harming the children.

A quote from Miss Timberlake....yet Miss Hughes still willing handed over her children for weekend custody!!

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