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4:02pm Monday 9th June 2008

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Police have identitifed the three men who died in two accidents on Hampshire roads over the weekend.

In the first accident Paul Choat died instantly after his car careered off the A338 at Blashford, also smashing into a tree.

Shortly after midnight the 43- year-old, from Green Lane, Fordingbridge, died when his silver Mercedes collided with trees and a telegraph pole.

Mr Choat owned the Verwood 4x4 and Mini Centre and was a well known and respected figure in the Raleigh Racing Community. He was the three times 4x4 off-road British Rally Champion.

He is survived by his partner Beverley.

One of Mr Choat's close friends, Barry Watkins, said: "Paul was unique, a larger than life character who was willing to help anyone. His death leaves a huge hole in many people's lives."

The accident happened on a right-hand bend between the Snails Lane and Ivy Lane junctions at Blashford, near Ringwood.

Police closed the road for seven hours while they investigated the cause of the tragedy. Officers confirmed that no other vehicles were involved.

An hour later two men were killed and a third man in his twenties was left fighting for his life following a collision on Lepe Road near Langley.

The driver of the car was Brett Richardson, a 27-year-old stores accountant with the Royal Navy from Mansfield Road in Gosport. His front seat passenger was Steven Ritchie, 24, a craftsman in the army with 17 Port and Maritime Regiment, from Margate, Kent. A 21-year-old from Calshot is in Southampton General Hospital, and his condition is described as serious but not life threatening.

The three men were travelling in a blue Subaru when they lost control and crashed head-on with a tree, just south of the junction with Stanswood Road, at about 1am.

The horrific scene was discovered by a police van, which moments earlier had been behind the Subaru at the Blackfield traffic lights.

In a statement, Mr Ritchie's family said: "Steven was the most wonderful son, brother, grandson, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend. All his family are extremely proud of what he had achieved in his short life. Steven was loved greatly by all who knew him and he in turn loved his family. We are all shocked and saddened by the tragic loss of a fabulous young man and in our hearts he will live forever. He may be gone but he will never ever be forgotten."

Councillor Alexis McEvoy has lived on Lepe Road for more than 25 years and fears that accidents will continue to happen if drivers do not take extra care.

She said: "It is a fairly dangerous bend. I cannot really see that there is anything the highways agency could do to make it any safer.

"Straightening the bends would just encourage people to increase their speed."

Anyone with any information about either crash should contact police on 0845 045 45 45 or Crimestoppers anonymously on 0800 555 111.


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hmm is a fool, says...
5:47pm Sun 8 Jun 08

hmm wrote:
Lost control like lost comments?
You're an idiot. You've had your little joke, your little bit of fun at the expense of some dead people. Ho ho ho. Well done. We're all in awe of your fantastic sense of humour

Obviously someone thought your comment was inappropriate, and the Echo moderator agreed. Grow up, deal with it and move on. I'm sure there are some spelling mistakes elsewhere you can go pick the Echo up on or something

Mo Taylor, Spain says...
5:56pm Sun 8 Jun 08

Our thoughts and prays with all the families involved, having personally known one of the lads involved. A great tragic loss

car driver, hants says...
8:15pm Sun 8 Jun 08

I think its poor taste/judgement by the Echo running an advert by Subaru boasting of its its fast cars on the internet forum.

Local resident, says...
9:50pm Sun 8 Jun 08

Deepest sympathy to the families. Prayers for the two young men who died and also for the injured.

hopefullythecouncilw illrealisenow?, 2 Close says...
12:02am Mon 9 Jun 08

car driver wrote:
I think its poor taste/judgement by the Echo running an advert by Subaru boasting of its its fast cars on the internet forum.
At the end of the day, the make of car is not to blame, this could have happened with any make of car. I have lived within a stones-throw away from this road for over two decades and a lot of people have not realised how sharp that bend is at night. The bend needs to have a clear sign by now surely?

j, says...
12:03am Mon 9 Jun 08

"Death is a challenge. It tells us not to waste time... It tells us to tell each other right now that we love each other.”

ali, portsmouth says...
2:26am Mon 9 Jun 08

j wrote:
"Death is a challenge. It tells us not to waste time... It tells us to tell each other right now that we love each other.”
you're so right j...i wish i had of told him..now i'll never see him again. RIP x x

Ann, portsmouth says...
7:35am Mon 9 Jun 08

My thought and prays are with there familys. I speak from the heart as I know one of the lads that died and despite what people on here are saying he was a really lovely lad kind and considerate!

K, says...
8:49am Mon 9 Jun 08

I deeply object to him being classed as a killer. Accidents happen he did not go out to kill anyone IT WAS AN ACCIDENT

anon, says...
9:10am Mon 9 Jun 08

I totaly agree with you he didnt out to crash his car on purpose it was AN ACCIDENT thats all. God bless them all x

Sad but true, says...
10:22am Mon 9 Jun 08

Sad waste, but they were driving a high peformance sports car and unfortantly the key factor in the majority of cases will be speed.

RIP

Thinking of the children, says...
11:19am Mon 9 Jun 08

K wrote:
I deeply object to him being classed as a killer. Accidents happen he did not go out to kill anyone IT WAS AN ACCIDENT
Thank goodness no children were killed.

Well someone had to think of the children.

Children, southampton says...
11:53am Mon 9 Jun 08

Re thinking of the children, both crashes happen late at night, so why would there be children out.

And another point yes there were 3 children killed that night, thats 3 sets of parents will miss greatly there sons.


My heart felt sympathies to you. RIP xx

Steve, Cyprus says...
12:31pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Totally shocked by the news. I knew two of them personally. Condolances to the families.

Who's the idiot?, says...
1:18pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Idiots wrote:
He is survived by his partner Beverley.


Que?
Means his partner - named Beverley - is still alive. What are you missing? "Basic English for Idiots"? It's quite a common bit of syntax

Lee, Southampton says...
1:46pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Very sad that people have died but we, as a society, still do not put enough emphasis on a simple truth - SPEED KILLS. For all you out there commenting on this, how many of you stick to the speed limits? let alone making adjustments for conditions!

George, says...
1:53pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Why do greiving friends and reletatives always make there way to This is Hampshire to pay respect?

Strange?!

Banker, says...
1:56pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Lee wrote:
Very sad that people have died but we, as a society, still do not put
enough emphasis on a simple truth - SPEED KILLS. For all you out there
commenting on this, how many of you stick to the speed limits? let
alone making adjustments for conditions!
That's far from a simple truth. Bare statistics don't even suggest it, given that a huge number of people routinely break the speed limit without even dying once. Simply saying "speed kills" is completely fallacious. Speed may be a factor in a road accident, but you seem to suggest that death is unavoidable above a certain speed, which somehow the government have managed to ascertain by some magic or other.

Witness, too, other countries such as Germany, to whom our speed limits are an absolute joke, and who suffer far fewer road fatalities than we do

Speed doesn't kill. An inability to drive at speed may contribute, though

kate, new forest says...
2:33pm Mon 9 Jun 08

where were the people from who died? local or portsmouth? I am from the area and same age as one of those who died. Out of the country at the mo, hope I don't know who was involved

kate, new forest says...
2:51pm Mon 9 Jun 08

as most people seem to agree accidents are accidents and can happen to anyone, just wanted to know if I knew the people who died. certainly not part of any subaru club so get ur knickers out of a twist!! and there are certainly faster cars out there!! if u hit a tree at a fast speed u normally die no matter what flaming car you are in!

Dave, Marchwood (Soton) says...
2:59pm Mon 9 Jun 08

I knew the front passenger well, you will be missed tremendously. RIP.
I also know the rear passenger well and god speed in your recovery.
All three are in all our thoughts. Deepest condolances to all the families involved.

Lee, Southampton says...
3:05pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Totally agree. It doesn't matter who you are but if you drive too fast for the road and the conditions you are putting yourself and others at risk of death.
As for the earlier comment, crash at low speed and you'll probably live. Crash at high speed and you might well die. I'm prepared to modify my statement to: INAPPROPRIATE SPEED KILLS. but it's the speed that changes a crash (they're rarely genuine accidents) into a tragedy. And as for Germany, I drive there a lot and the drivers only drive fast on the motorways. on the smaller roads they are far more careful, slower, and much better drivers than I see here.

Simon, says...
3:09pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Lee wrote:
Totally agree. It doesn't matter who you are but if you drive too fast for the road and the conditions you are putting yourself and others at risk of death. As for the earlier comment, crash at low speed and you'll probably live. Crash at high speed and you might well die. I'm prepared to modify my statement to: INAPPROPRIATE SPEED KILLS. but it's the speed that changes a crash (they're rarely genuine accidents) into a tragedy. And as for Germany, I drive there a lot and the drivers only drive fast on the motorways. on the smaller roads they are far more careful, slower, and much better drivers than I see here.
I don't quite understand your "its the speed that changes a crash (they're rarely genuine accidents)..?

Can you elaborate please, because I might be in agreement with you.

Lee, Southampton says...
3:20pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Simon wrote:
Lee wrote:
Totally agree. It doesn't matter who you are but if you drive too fast for the road and the conditions you are putting yourself and others at risk of death. As for the earlier comment, crash at low speed and you'll probably live. Crash at high speed and you might well die. I'm prepared to modify my statement to: INAPPROPRIATE SPEED KILLS. but it's the speed that changes a crash (they're rarely genuine accidents) into a tragedy. And as for Germany, I drive there a lot and the drivers only drive fast on the motorways. on the smaller roads they are far more careful, slower, and much better drivers than I see here.
I don't quite understand your "its the speed that changes a crash (they're rarely genuine accidents)..?

Can you elaborate please, because I might be in agreement with you.
What I mean is that it is rare that a road crash is accidental, that there is usually some kind of responsibility involved. Whether it be driver error, poor maintenance, road design, alcohol or drug consumption or simply (and this often occurs with young men) showing off by driving fast, there is usually an underlying cause for the crash. I may be getting pedantic but just because something is unintentional does not mean it is accidental, unpredictable. Whenever we drive we have to judge for ourselves how fast to drive, how close to the car in front etc. Sometimes we don't get it right. It's because we're human, we make mistakes. Sadly we also, as humans, think we know better than anyone else, which is one reason why so many people ignore speed limits.

I must stress I am making no comment on this tragedy, but on driving in general. Very sad that we should lose 4000 a year on the roads.

A resident of lepe, says...
4:02pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Why ban fran? she/he has cut through the emotion of this tragedy and pointed out that there is blame in this crash, based on the picture of a car that couldn't have come from driving at a legal speed. Hopefully youngsters can learn from this and not let them die in vain.

fran, says...
4:06pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Didn't mean to offend, so i apologise. I just saw excuses and felt a feeling of anger when more are interested in the car than the years of pain to follow.

Sorry again to anyone connected. Sincerely.

Crash investigator, says...
4:09pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Presumably all these people opining that "from the state of the car he was blatantly speeding" have had years of training in making those judgements.....

A Driver, says...
4:12pm Mon 9 Jun 08

A resident of lepe wrote:
Why ban fran? she/he has cut through the emotion of this tragedy and pointed out that there is blame in this crash, based on the picture of a car that couldn't have come from driving at a legal speed. Hopefully youngsters can learn from this and not let them die in vain.
The picture is of the rear of the car... how can you gauge how fast the car was travelling?

Simon, says...
4:15pm Mon 9 Jun 08

A resident of lepe wrote:
Why ban fran? she/he has cut through the emotion of this tragedy and pointed out that there is blame in this crash, based on the picture of a car that couldn't have come from driving at a legal speed. Hopefully youngsters can learn from this and not let them die in vain.
My car looked worse after I wrote it off on the M271 last year.

Wasn't breaking the speed limit, but landing in the ditch did most of the damage.

Firefighter, says...
4:20pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Simon wrote:
A resident of lepe wrote: Why ban fran? she/he has cut through the emotion of this tragedy and pointed out that there is blame in this crash, based on the picture of a car that couldn't have come from driving at a legal speed. Hopefully youngsters can learn from this and not let them die in vain.
My car looked worse after I wrote it off on the M271 last year. Wasn't breaking the speed limit, but landing in the ditch did most of the damage.
Careless driving? p.s. they have been cut out of that car, this is why it looks bad.

Simon, says...
4:26pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Firefighter wrote:
Simon wrote:
A resident of lepe wrote: Why ban fran? she/he has cut through the emotion of this tragedy and pointed out that there is blame in this crash, based on the picture of a car that couldn't have come from driving at a legal speed. Hopefully youngsters can learn from this and not let them die in vain.
My car looked worse after I wrote it off on the M271 last year. Wasn't breaking the speed limit, but landing in the ditch did most of the damage.
Careless driving? p.s. they have been cut out of that car, this is why it looks bad.
Are you looking at the same pic I am?

p.s. Call it what you will, but wasn't speeding, no other lives were in danger, wet greasy road, car (was) in good working order, new tyres.... personally, i call it an accident.

Show some respect, Thanet says...
4:35pm Mon 9 Jun 08

While you all fight over who is right and who is wrong, can I tell you where I have been today please.
I have been at the house of the Mother and sister of the front passenger, who has been taken so very tragically. They are very very dear friends of mine, and to watch them fall apart today, and sob their hearts out for their lost son and brother has been totally soul destroying.
So whilst you all sit there passing judgement on whose fault it is these lads are gone, please spare a thought for the families who are suffering the most unbearable pain imaginable.
They did not ask for this to happen. And neither did the passengers. They did not deserve to die, and the suggestion that they got what was coming to them leaves me sick to the stomach.
Please, show some respect for these CHILDREN, who have had their lives cut short for whatever reason, and have left behind families who are having to make funeral arrangements for their children. Something no parent should EVER have to do.
If you had seen the families, and how truly devestated they are, and their rivers of enless tears, I'm sure you would think twice about posting such hurtful thoughtless messages.
RIP Steven. Your family truly adore you.

Firefighterr, says...
4:37pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Simon wrote:
Firefighter wrote:
Simon wrote:
A resident of lepe wrote: Why ban fran? she/he has cut through the emotion of this tragedy and pointed out that there is blame in this crash, based on the picture of a car that couldn\'t have come from driving at a legal speed. Hopefully youngsters can learn from this and not let them die in vain.
My car looked worse after I wrote it off on the M271 last year. Wasn\'t breaking the speed limit, but landing in the ditch did most of the damage.
Careless driving? p.s. they have been cut out of that car, this is why it looks bad.
Are you looking at the same pic I am? p.s. Call it what you will, but wasn\'t speeding, no other lives were in danger, wet greasy road, car (was) in good working order, new tyres.... personally, i call it an accident.
Yes, thats why i said it looks worse than it may have been as we cut of the roof. He was speeding. If he was going 30mph he wouldnt have died. That is a true fact. By speeding he caused his passengers to die or be injuryed which isnt very responsible.

But whatever is said or done, its a sad but too often happening story.

RIP

p.s. come on are you seriously suggesting you crashed into a ditch for no-reason at all?

Highway Agency Bod, says...
4:54pm Mon 9 Jun 08

The reason why they crashed into the tree was because they were speeding.

That is why road crashes are NO longer call Accidents as someone is always at fault, they are called Incidents.

HTH

DSM, Winchester says...
4:56pm Mon 9 Jun 08

I find it strange the frequent use of the word 'Accident' here. Even the Police have stopped using the term, preferring Road Traffic Incident. Accident implies no fault and pure chance. Until the facts of these tragic crashes are known, there is no point whatsoever slinging mud at the drivers, or pontificating what the passengers should or should not have said. I don't know what happened and nor does anyone else on here, but everyone seems to have their own personal insight.
Let the investigations continue and then there may be occasion to lay blame; until then, keep quiet.

Firefighter, says...
4:57pm Mon 9 Jun 08

So your car just decided i know ill take over control of this vehicle and plough it into a ditch? Did your tyre blow or anything else?

If they were speeding, it will be due to that. No he didnt mean to hit a tree, but the speed may be a factor.

Outrageous Comments, says...
5:04pm Mon 9 Jun 08

I dont what too make of this, i understand peoples points of views, but why do people always come on here claiming they know someone involved? If you had the last thing you would do was post on the internet.

Paul Berton, says...
5:07pm Mon 9 Jun 08

DSM wrote:
I find it strange the frequent use of the word 'Accident' here. Even the Police have stopped using the term, preferring Road Traffic Incident. Accident implies no fault and pure chance. Until the facts of these tragic crashes are known, there is no point whatsoever slinging mud at the drivers, or pontificating what the passengers should or should not have said. I don't know what happened and nor does anyone else on here, but everyone seems to have their own personal insight. Let the investigations continue and then there may be occasion to lay blame; until then, keep quiet.
Erm, no. Accident implies there was no intention to cause the outcome.

Unless the driver intended to career off the road and hit a tree - which I doubt very much - it was an accident.

RTI is simply a term the police use for every accident that happens on the road

Simon, says...
5:14pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Firefighter wrote:
So your car just decided i know ill take over control of this vehicle and plough it into a ditch? Did your tyre blow or anything else? If they were speeding, it will be due to that. No he didnt mean to hit a tree, but the speed may be a factor.
Not going to comment about my experience. This forum isn't about me.

You blame speed for the "incident", yet you say speed may be a factor.

So speed is to blame or not? Or is speed a contributing factor, BUT not just down to the sheer speed which caused their deaths?

Lee, says...
5:14pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Paul Berton wrote:
DSM wrote:
I find it strange the frequent use of the word 'Accident' here. Even the Police have stopped using the term, preferring Road Traffic Incident. Accident implies no fault and pure chance. Until the facts of these tragic crashes are known, there is no point whatsoever slinging mud at the drivers, or pontificating what the passengers should or should not have said. I don't know what happened and nor does anyone else on here, but everyone seems to have their own personal insight. Let the investigations continue and then there may be occasion to lay blame; until then, keep quiet.
Erm, no. Accident implies there was no intention to cause the outcome.

Unless the driver intended to career off the road and hit a tree - which I doubt very much - it was an accident.

RTI is simply a term the police use for every accident that happens on the road
Actually accidental and unintentional do have different meanings. In the case of road crashes most of the time the action is deliberate but the outcome is unintentional. It is very rare for a road crash to be truly an accident. The Police have stopped using the word for a very good reason.

c, says...
5:16pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Outrageous Comments wrote:
I dont what too make of this, i understand peoples points of views, but why do people always come on here claiming they know someone involved? If you had the last thing you would do was post on the internet.
Well being as it involved three people im'e sure some of the people who say they know them actually do, why shouldn't they post on here.

andy, local says...
5:24pm Mon 9 Jun 08

R.I.P Lads

get well soon taf

Blah Blah, says...
5:24pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Lee wrote:
Paul Berton wrote:
DSM wrote: I find it strange the frequent use of the word 'Accident' here. Even the Police have stopped using the term, preferring Road Traffic Incident. Accident implies no fault and pure chance. Until the facts of these tragic crashes are known, there is no point whatsoever slinging mud at the drivers, or pontificating what the passengers should or should not have said. I don't know what happened and nor does anyone else on here, but everyone seems to have their own personal insight. Let the investigations continue and then there may be occasion to lay blame; until then, keep quiet.
Erm, no. Accident implies there was no intention to cause the outcome. Unless the driver intended to career off the road and hit a tree - which I doubt very much - it was an accident. RTI is simply a term the police use for every accident that happens on the road
Actually accidental and unintentional do have different meanings. In the case of road crashes most of the time the action is deliberate but the outcome is unintentional. It is very rare for a road crash to be truly an accident. The Police have stopped using the word for a very good reason.
Do not agree.

Police have stopped using them because they want to stay neutral until the cause or blame can be properly ascertained.

So you are saying the driver deliberately drove into the tree, but did not intend on killing himself or his passengers?

Think about it.

lee, says...
5:32pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Blah Blah wrote:
Lee wrote:
Paul Berton wrote:
DSM wrote: I find it strange the frequent use of the word 'Accident' here. Even the Police have stopped using the term, preferring Road Traffic Incident. Accident implies no fault and pure chance. Until the facts of these tragic crashes are known, there is no point whatsoever slinging mud at the drivers, or pontificating what the passengers should or should not have said. I don't know what happened and nor does anyone else on here, but everyone seems to have their own personal insight. Let the investigations continue and then there may be occasion to lay blame; until then, keep quiet.
Erm, no. Accident implies there was no intention to cause the outcome. Unless the driver intended to career off the road and hit a tree - which I doubt very much - it was an accident. RTI is simply a term the police use for every accident that happens on the road
Actually accidental and unintentional do have different meanings. In the case of road crashes most of the time the action is deliberate but the outcome is unintentional. It is very rare for a road crash to be truly an accident. The Police have stopped using the word for a very good reason.
Do not agree.

Police have stopped using them because they want to stay neutral until the cause or blame can be properly ascertained.

So you are saying the driver deliberately drove into the tree, but did not intend on killing himself or his passengers?

Think about it.
you know well that's not what I'm saying. The driver drove how he did deliberately. He certainly did not intend to leave the road, let alone hit a tree. But something happened that resulted in tragedy. Only the Police Investigation will find out what, but something happened. It is possible that the way the driver was driving MAY have contributed but there was definitely a cause. There are thousands of possible causes but a cause there will be.

redarmy, southampton says...
7:07pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Unlike many others,im coming here to send my condolences to all the families involved..
they say time is a healer, i dont believe it is,as how can you ever forget...
my thoughts are with you all, your boys are with god now. peace.

Danielle an Marie, Holbury says...
7:10pm Mon 9 Jun 08

Our thoughts are with the friends and families at this sad time!!
it is a tradgedy losing someone you love...
to those leaving unthoughtfull messages please remember people are grieving and are coming on here to leave condolences on remember their loved ones!!
Our thoughts are with the Lad in hospital..Get Well Soon!!!
R.i.p
****

Sally, verwood says...
8:35pm Mon 9 Jun 08

R.I.P Choaty. You will be missed dearly

****

Steve, Marchwood says...
9:24pm Mon 9 Jun 08

A sad loss to the driver and passenger, thoughts with the family's,(RIP). Hope the rear passenger has a speedy recovery.

17 p&m, marchwood says...
10:12pm Mon 9 Jun 08

rip lads (17 p&m)

ali, portsmouth says...
10:56pm Mon 9 Jun 08

its so tragic..nothing can changed what happened now.
steven..you were such a lovely person..so many people loved you. i know ur sister is so heartbroken at the moment and ur mum and dad must be so inconsolable. RIP hun.
also RIP to all the other victims. my heart goes out to their families xx

-, says...
12:37am Tue 10 Jun 08

The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss is grief -
But the pain of grief
Is only a shadow
When compared with the pain
Of never risking love.”

RIP Lads xxx

Big Boy, Hythe says...
5:49am Tue 10 Jun 08

This is not a book of condolences! This is a comments page. Please do not inflict us with public displays of grief, it is inappropriate.

KAREN, South Africa says...
6:57am Tue 10 Jun 08

ENOUGH FROM YOU ALL ALREADY .
SOME OF US ARE RELATIVES WHO LIVE FAR AWAY AND WE NEED TO READ THIS TO GET CLOSURE.
TO PAULS FRIENDS THINKING OF YOU
FROM THE ELUSIVE LITTLE SISTER

Amma, Town says...
7:32am Tue 10 Jun 08

Some of your are so rude on here...lets hope you don't have to deal with losing a loved one some day as some of these people have! The echo often open these forums up as condolenses books when something so tragic has happened. If you don't want to see peoples comments then I suggest you don't bother reading on here anymore. I hope all of you guys on here feeling grief at the moment will soon start to feel better, believe me time is a great healer although it may not seem like it right now! x

sonny, says...
8:02am Tue 10 Jun 08

paul potts wrote:
ali, portsmouth on 10:56pm Mon 9 Jun 08 its so tragic..nothing can changed what happened now. steven..you were such a lovely person..so many people loved you. i know ur sister is so heartbroken at the moment and ur mum and dad must be so inconsolable. RIP hun. also RIP to all the other victims. my heart goes out to their families xx
What\'s with this? enough is enough. We know you knew him, but you have posted so many times now, it\'s obvious this is about you and not the lads or their families. Blah blah blah...we get it ok!!!
when people are grieving maybe they feel the need to let it out one way or another.. it seems a few people knew the lads on here..and they're entitled to post. if it really offends you that much just skip the post. there is no need to add insult to injury.

kayley, says...
9:32am Tue 10 Jun 08

paul potts and hacked off: making nasty remarks to people who have just lost their loved ones and who are full of sorrow..what hero's you are! i hope you both feel so much better about yourselves now you've made your snide remarks.
lets just hope one day if you are in the same situation and need to offload..that people will be as generous with you.
RIP

M JAMES, ringwood says...
11:52am Tue 10 Jun 08

hopefullythecouncilwillrealisenow? wrote:
car driver wrote: I think its poor taste/judgement by the Echo running an advert by Subaru boasting of its its fast cars on the internet forum.
At the end of the day, the make of car is not to blame, this could have happened with any make of car. I have lived within a stones-throw away from this road for over two decades and a lot of people have not realised how sharp that bend is at night. The bend needs to have a clear sign by now surely?
neither roads nor cars kill - sadly it is the drivers that do this driving to fast for the road conditions thats how accidents happen - always will because nobody thinks it will happen to them as they feel in control .. just very sad .

Natalie, Dartford, Kent says...
1:44pm Tue 10 Jun 08

What a sad world it is when a tragic accident such as this happens and all half the people on here can do is make unfounded guesses as to the causes and who was to blame whilst the other half tell friends and families not to post things because this is not a book of condolenses. Who the hell do you think you are??? Steven was my best friends brother. If the morans posting such comments could talk to his sister Kirsty for just one minute you would understand that she is completly heartbroken and totally inconsolable. If we, as friends and family choose to write comments on here, cry quietly at home or shout it from the nearest hilltop then that is our perogative and we have every right to do so. Do you honestly think it helps anyone to talk about the why's, what's and how's? We're not stupid people and we know all that but we are actually going through grief right now and don't need to hear it. So do me a favour, if you havn't got anything nice to say then don't say anything at all and just pray that one day your not the one in this situation because I can tell you right now... it's absolute hell....