I wake up every day and ask why it couldn't have been me, I am living a nightmare.

That’s a how a Hampshire father - whose 4-year-old son has been given a ten percent chance of survival - described his current situation.

Now chemist George Jordan, is trying to raise £10,000 for complimentary therapy to support his fight.

"When you see Phelan, you fall in love with him, he is always smiling.

"He can be quite cheeky and is really outgoing, unless he is tired from treatment- then he is quite and shy," said the father of three.

His parents Cynthia and George alternate who takes Phelan to hospital and who looks other his two brothers Kelton and Jude.

Kelton who is a nine year old student at Foundry Lane Primary school, tries to help his brother when he is sick and often becomes concerned about his brothers health.

"Phelan is the centre point of the family, Kelton is always very worried about his brother and does like to be away from him," said the 36-year-old father.

When Phelan Jordan was just 18 months old, Cynthia, noticed he was not walking correctly on his right foot when she picked him up from nursery.

Doctors at Southampton General initially thought that it was an infection and treated Phelan with antibiotics but after a series of visits doctors noticed a growing mass in his scan.

The scan's revealed that Phelan had an aggressive tumour which was growing.

On the 6 June, his parents were told that it wasn’t just a tumour but it was neuroblastoma.

A cancer that forms in certain types of nerve tissue that affects 100 children in the UK each year.

Phelan had intensive chemotherapy treatment, radiotherapy, a stem cell transplant as well as surgery to remove the tumour from his stomach.

Then Phelan went on to have immunotherapy treatment for six months.

He was given the all clear by doctors and returned to Tiny Toes Day Nursery,

When Phelan was given the all clear he rang a bell in Southampton General Hospital to tell everyone he we free of the disease - to which is staff, family and friends cheered with delight.

However this was short lived, the cancer , now even more aggressive, returned.

George could not believe it and begged doctors to reassess the scans but after examination it was clear it had returned.

Now the family are hoping that herbal and nutritional alongside his daily radiotherapy treatments.

One of London's leading nutritionists has devised a plan for Phelan, however the family have exhausted all of their savings.

"As an adult I feel guilty, I wish there was more than I could do to provide or help him but I am doing everything I can," said George.

After Cynthia and George researched online they also found herbal treatments will be sent from Canada to try and help aid Phelan's recovery.

"We cannot just let him go without trying every option, we know it's expensive but we don't want to regret not acting and giving him a chance in life.

"Where ever we are able to get help, we will always be grateful for the support," said George who has worked at Chilworth Technology Chemist for ten years.

"Phelan's death is my biggest fear. When he was first diagnosed I asked 'Why not me?' At least I have lived my life to some extent, he is an innocent child - its just so hard for everyone," said George.

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