Isobel Butler

The disabled 45- year-old grandmother grew up amidst bloodshed and abuse but has refused to feel sorry for herself and draws on her own harrowing experiences to help others.

When she was a child both her 13-year-old brother and 37- year-old grandfather were shot dead in the Troubles in Northern Ireland.

For the sake of her children she found the courage to leave.

That experience motivated her to dedicate her life to the well-being of others and she became a Women’s Aid volunteer for three years.

Isobel said: “I thought even if I just help one woman I will have done my job.

“I have helped lots of people in that position and some made it through the other side, others went back home and that was their choice but I always tried to make sure they knew I would be there for them no matter what.

“I just wanted to give something back and help people like I had been helped, what I give comes from the heart.

She then started an outreach programme for women suffering violence at home – often meeting in park toilets or changing rooms so they could be alone.

She has also supported numerous campaigns and projects to ensure and promote the safety of victims.

However, one of her proudest achievements is giving her four daughters a safe and loving home life.

It was one of her daughters, Coleen O’Neill, also of Weston, who nominated her for the award saying she had always instilled in them pride, confidence and self-belief.

Coleen said: “I nominated my mum because she has helped women to safely escape domestic violence for years, so they are able to move on to better lives.

“I hope my mum can have a treat as she always gives to others and she never complains or thinks of herself.”